What should be?

I saw this phrase in some content from a group I participate in, “…what intelligence is or should be”

I stopped using “should” when I write or talk… I guess I “should say” try and stop using it… It’s sort of an automatic word… but it’s a big deal for me. When ever anyone uses it an alarm goes off.

Do we know what intelligence should be? As a group, what if we agreed on what intelligence should be… Or, on what thinking is, or should be…

Whenever we use the word should: We should, you should, thinking should be, intelligence should be, Life should be… aren’t we in danger of forming another thought consensus… An Ideal?